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And with all those things factored in, a MAYBE is so far-fetched that I am really wasting time. But the ones I get confused about are the neutrals. So few women that light up the way I imagine I light up. I don’t want to mess around with “dating.” My goal is a relationship. What I’ve found about myself in these three situations is interesting. And I think I’ve found myself pursuing neutrals even when I know the HIT is not there. So few women who are clear enough about what they want, and that find what I am has some of those qualities.
And if you don’t even know them yet, I can assure you, you are working away from them.
Getting clear about why you are dating is a great first step.
Dean: Wanting to know where you are, who you're with, and what you're doing 23 hours of the day. You want to be around them every second of every day and they're all you can think about. A pretty good sign is when you are constantly thinking about them and can't wait to see them next. Javi: If it were up to me all dates would be on the couch eating pizza. Plus, who says I want to be alone on the couch eating pizza?
Javi: Clingy is when someone demands to know your whereabouts 24/7, asks a ton of questions, and gets angry when you're honest. This sounds cliched and dumb, but you know it in your heart. Although I don't really understand the dressing up fancy thing. You can go to a nice restaurant in a T-shirt and jeans and fuck anyone else that gets bothered by that.
And we all go through that at some point or another.